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“Everybody’s a nobody in a bikini”

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Absolutely Fabulous letters – BBC (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

“I don’t do holidays. Everybody’s a nobody in a bikini.”

Magda, “Absolutely Fabulous”

I didn’t even really consider taking a bikini on holiday, let alone wearing one. I did try one on in Next, just to see – but I figured it was really designed for someone from a different species. My anatomy didn’t really seem to … marry with the thing. Things.

So, ASDA swimsuits with a full tummy-covering seemed to be the way to go.

I was interested, as a matter of semi-scientific research, whether anyone with a similar, or indeed worse post-childbearing tummy than I have would brave the silent criticism of other sunbathers and deign to tan their stretch marks.

Always, at the back of my mind, are the words of that post-natal physiotherapist who said, sympathetically, “Oh, yes, your skin really is quite badly damaged.”

So, one flight later and I am sitting at a pool, surrounded by every shade, shape and size of European possible. Of the women, I was pretty much the only one not in a bikini. I may have been the only one.

Magda’s assertion began to ring in my ears. Was it true?

I looked and looked for anyone looking like a somebody in a bikini. Truth be told, everybody looked like somebody in a bikini.

With nothing left to the imagination, one was struck by the variety of humanity. Newly arrived Brits dazzling with paleness, looking like they were lining up to audition for a part as a semi-nude Elizabeth I; gorgeous tanned Spaniards, “inclined to embonpoint”; the young, the old, the fat, the thin… And me, with my cozzy on, with my baseball hat on to prevent scalp burn and my migraine-preventative sunglasses shielding my face from the UV rays and giving me a nice “goggle” tan look by the end of the week.

Without clothes to express themselves, the bikini wearers only had themselves to express themselves. And, with the Emperor’s new clothes being the only clothes around everybody could only really be somebody. They couldn’t be anyone else.

So – to the important question. Did anyone with a worse gut than me wear a bikini? A resounding “No”. Not even close. No one I saw had a tummy even remotely like mine, let alone as bad. I can live with that.

Maybe next year I’ll stand up for the skin-damaged amongst us and go the way of the bikini and let the “quite badly damaged” pizza dough see the light of day. Maybe some nosy wee Scot will go home and blog about it afterwards…

 

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11 thoughts on ““Everybody’s a nobody in a bikini”

  1. Stretch marks don’t tan.
    Otherwise I agree with you lots.
    Except I’ll never show mine; six kids. Just cannot!!! 😉

  2. Scotstig on said:

    You’ll always be a somebody on the beach as immortalised by Lou Bega in the song “Mambo No.5”:-

    “A little bit of Sandra in the sun……….”

  3. I bought a bikini last year, I dealt with the gut issue by buying a retro fifties style with big pants. Problem solved, except since I have a ten minute grace period before going straight from bleu to bien cuit it’s somewhat pointless. I have to spend any out of water time wrapped in a towel under a massive hat.

    TBH on the whole I think everyone is too busy worrying about their own body issues to be bothered about yours, in ten years we’ll be pining for our forty year old bods. Enjoy the fact it’s still working is my motto.

    • I had a look at some retro ones after I read your comment last night. Too cool and funky for me I think. But very cool. You always do clothes well. I never do.

  4. Laurie Nichols on said:

    I own one bikini that hasn’t seen the light of day, much less the sunlight in, I would say, about a decade. I have my small battle scars and the world need not be exposed to them. I am quite happy with the one piece and that is how I roll. 🙂

  5. Hooray for a body that still works – Cat, you are bang on! Suspect my stomach is more damaged by Toffee Crisps etc than three pregnancies. Here on the Atlantic coast of Scotland, the bikini question is irrelevant anyway. Wetsuit, anyone?

  6. Well, we solve the entire issue by swimming in the out-of-the-way places where the water is cleaner, and no one else goes there, such as hidden creeks, etc. We call them hidey holes and when we swim we wear old t-shirts and cut-off jeans.
    And swim shoes, since the ground can be rocky. The tans we get suffice for the rest of the time, when we wear clothing…

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